What helps you relax and have fun?

Examples: Enjoying simple pleasures adds to my peace regarding life in general. My dad enjoyed barbecuing and family barbecues. He enjoyed being outdoors. We’d sit out many nights and look at the stars, watch the clouds, and listen to him play the harmonica. He was a square dance caller at a time when western dances were family affairs. I loved the full twirling colorful skirts. We went on several horseback rides. He also took us camping and to various state and national parks. He enjoyed fishing, but I enjoyed swimming. Even when I was very careful not to splash, I’m sure I still scared the fish away. But he endured it. We eventually balanced out separate times for fishing and swimming. He would even take me water skiing when I was older. It was a great foundation for just plain having fun and resting and relaxing. I have some friends who simply are unable to just sit and relax. They always want to be accomplishing something and can come up with very involved projects to keep them busy. Which I guess is fine too, but I’d far rather enjoy a scenic drive. My dear mother thought a cup of good hot tea could cure anything and who am I to say different. Opening a fresh packet of Earl Grey and smelling the bergamot is certainly one of my delights in life.